Making Love Sustainable is a project of Wendy Strgar, author of the books Love that Works and Sex that Works (forthcoming), a popular guest blogger on the topics of love, sexual health, and positivity, and an award-winning social entrepreneur. She is the founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, a national brand of organic personal lubricants and aphrodisiac products that are sold and endorsed by physicians nationwide for their safety. At Making Love Sustainable, we believe that relationships work when you focus on the love and positivity in your life. Need a reminder? Enter your email to get Wendy’s insights on intimacy delivered every week.
“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” MLK, Jr. All of the things in life that we have no language for recede from view. And yet our inability to express the feelings and experiences that happen to us don’t make those feeling …Read More
For me, learning to feel means learning to relax.Sometimes when I feel rushed or busy, I try to pull myself away from the edges of my body, of my life, into a narrow zone where nothing, especially emails, can reach me. I'm protected there, but I'm also contracted an …Read More
A few weeks ago I started to feel a heaviness in my lungs that I was sure was pneumonia. I felt run down and my throat got irritated. I will be so sick in a few days, I thought, but then I wasn’t. I felt fine again. My mom called to tell me she had pneumonia.I do …Read More
In true late adopter fashion, I’ve finally jumped into watching "Game of Thrones" after, well, years of seeing headline after headline about the epic novel-turned-TV series. I got completely sucked in from the first episode. However, a curious thing happened while I w …Read More
The title of this post is from an essay by Sparrow, a poet. I love this essay because I think it captures so well how important small, private moments of joy are to our ability to be human. In my experience, searching for big happiness brings more disappointment than pl …Read More
I visited a friend for a night recently, and as usual we talked about sex. She told me that she and her boyfriend, with whom she has been with monogamously for about a year, started having anal sex after she brought up trying it -- she had accidentally seen a butt plu …Read More