Wendy Strgar

Making Love Sustainable is a project of Wendy Strgar, author of the books Love that Works and Sex that Works (forthcoming), a popular guest blogger on the topics of love, sexual health, and positivity, and an award-winning social entrepreneur. She is the founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, a national brand of organic personal lubricants and aphrodisiac products that are sold and endorsed by physicians nationwide for their safety. At Making Love Sustainable, we believe that relationships work when you focus on the love and positivity in your life. Need a reminder? Enter your email to get Wendy’s insights on intimacy delivered every week.

You are a wonderful mentor! Thank you!

Megan - 40 year-old mother of two, Hawaii

Thank you for your always thoughtful and well written articles.


. . . thanks for your insight, mission, and vulnerability. I enjoy your weekly reminders to lean towards love.


I love your writing . . . Thank you for all your good work.


You always provide so much insight and intelligence to your website, I think of you often dear lady, Mother that you are. You are awesome! Keep telling the world whats Up!


YES YES YES to what you call forth from of all of us. May we deeply cultivate the soil of love in our souls and see what grows out in the world.


I am relieved that someone has reinforced this central concept in relationship development — so much Internet relationship blather fails to shine the light on the central relationship skill which enables everything — our capacity for intimacy with our Self.


Thank you for your writing . . . I am single currently and this just reminds me this is a time to work on my own relationship with myself.


What a beautiful, raw, honest account of love.


Thank you for your soulful and insightful sentiments, they help so many!


I so appreciate your sharing your vulnerability.


I found your blog by accident today. I am grateful. I have been reading up on your stuff. Excellent writer you are!


Loving the Difficult (Mother)

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A few weeks ago I started to feel a heaviness in my lungs that I was sure was pneumonia. I felt run down and my throat got irritated. I will be so sick in a few days, I thought, but then I wasn’t. I felt fine again. My mom called to tell me she had pneumonia.I do …

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How we all perpetuate Rape Culture & what we can do to stop

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In true late adopter fashion, I’ve finally jumped into watching "Game of Thrones" after, well, years of seeing headline after headline about the epic novel-turned-TV series. I got completely sucked in from the first episode. However, a curious thing happened while I w …

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“Let Happiness Search for You”

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The title of this post is from an essay by Sparrow, a poet. I love this essay because I think it captures so well how important small, private moments of joy are to our ability to be human. In my experience, searching for big happiness brings more disappointment than pl …

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Anal Sex, Oral Sex, and Long-Term Relationships

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I visited a friend for a night recently, and as usual we talked about sex. She told me that she and her boyfriend, with whom she has been with monogamously for about a year, started having anal sex after she brought up trying it -- she had accidentally seen a butt plu …

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What Do You Need to be Happy?

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Maybe you think you need a vacation. Maybe you think you need certain kinds of food, or a certain amount of sleep, or certain clothes, or certain makeup, or certain books or friends or likes. Maybe you think you need a better cell phone or job or spouse in order to be h …

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The Importance of Female Friendship

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This month, we celebrate both Women’s History Month and International Women’s Day. Both of these events have gotten me thinking an awful lot about the power of female friendship. Historically, amazing things have happened when women banded together in friendship to …

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